There are no limits to loving your neighbour, except those of prior obligations to Yahweh. Loving does not imply being a fool, or a victim, or tolerating non-Christian behaviour if you are able to prevent it, or exposing yourself to unnecessary danger.

Yeshuah showed that you do not have to be a victim, either willingly or unwillingly. You do not have to accept injury, or death, other than at the hands of lawful authority. You may withdraw from others, and remain separated, if they show mindless resistance, unacceptance, or hostility.

Do not love in order to be loved. Do not buy love. You try to buy love when you tolerate behaviour you should not, in the desired return for the acceptance, regard, and love of others.